I see you. It’s not your day, but somehow it should be. You are mother and yet, no one says happy Mother’s Day to you because they cannot see your story. Perhaps you held your baby in your arms for a moment, perhaps only in your heart. Maybe you are mother to children that passed under your care in some way. But still – a mother all the same. Happy Mother’s Day to you. I will be thinking of you today. People do not mother because they birth babies. People mother because they are defined by caring.